


Anywhere else, and you’d be wise to use the impact of a feather. (Or for simply completing an outfit.) The power of a crop swing should equal that of an enthusiastic love pat, and only then should its target be the fleshiest parts of someone’s bottom. Newbies should use it for teasing and tantalizing, not beatings. Either way, you get a nice sensual butt massage out of it.Ĭrops - Disciplinary devices for horses and errant submissives. You can also try applying beforehand as well. beads from us here.Īrnica Cream - This is a “pain relieving gel for bumps, bruises, sprains, sports injuries & over-exercising.” Applied after a bottom spanking (as Christian did on Ana’s red tush), this ointment may reduce bruising. Lelo has the bestselling beads in the world, three years running. That is, of course, unless you’ve got a hot 27-year-old billionaire spanking you at the same time. In fact, you can wear them and pretty easily forget about them. The sensation is subtle and will be better at promoting pelvic floor health - which should be a priority - than it will be at giving you instantaneous orgasms. Inside each is a weight that moves when you move, causing your vaginal muscles to involuntarily contract. They can be hard and shiny, or made of softer material. They can be free-floating, or connected by a cord. Vaginal Balls - Also known as Ben Wa Balls, Geisha Balls, or Vaginal Beads. Or go for a hip corset with attatched wrist restraints. You can also improvise with a set of wrist cuffs, as long as they’re big enough for your biceps, fit comfortably and don’t keep falling down around your elbows. The most famous is the Hitachi Magic Wand, but Lelo just launched their own beautiful line of “Smart Wands” that are rechargeable and waterproof!īicep Cuffs (or Armbinders) - Just like purpose-made wrist restrains, accept they attach to your biceps and hook behind your back, limiting movement and sticking your boobs out for you. Which, if you’re into sensual torture, could be just the tool for you. They pack such a powerful punch that the recipient of its vibrations may get over-sensitized. Wand Vibrators - Often sold as “back massagers,” these big boys are for external stimulation, usually of the clitoris. If you indeed are thinking about re-enacting any “ 50” scenes, read up on our 10 Rules of Wrist Restraint.

No, best to go with purpose-made cuffs that keep you secure without causing bodily harm, like Etherea Silk Cuffs for more vanilla play, Sutra Chainlink Silk & Suede Cuffs for Red Room play. And hardware store rope bondage is a whole other advice article (coming soon on this site!). As for the cable ties Christian bought from Ana in the hardware store: Don’t go there! Way too dangerous for newbies. And you read about the booboos Ana got from the metal handcuffs. Ties will work if you’ve got nothing else handy, but they can also pinch if they’re tied too tightly, cutting off circulation, which is a no no. Wrist Restraints - Christian uses everything from the iconic woven tie on the cover of the first book to metal handcuffs, from leather cuffs to silk ones. If you need to improvise, scarves work well - just be sure to tie the knot to the side so your blindfold-ee doesn’t have to lie on it. More plausible would be an elegant silk number like the Intima, perhaps in red to match the blood red walls of his upstairs dungeon. But come on, billionaire Grey has to steal the in-flight paraphernalia for his kinky fuckery? Not buying it.

In the trilogy, they use an airline sleeping mask, which we’re all for. Here’s a review of some of the items you too can procure to live out your Ana fantasies, from mild to hardcore:īlindfolds - As Christian knows, you dampen one or two senses, it heightens the rest, particular your sense of touch. The result has been a boon for the sex toy industry, thanks to all the props Christian Grey has in his museum chest in the Red Room of Pain. James’s Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy, but you can’t deny the sexual curiosity they’ve ignited, the sexual knowledge they’ve imparted and the sexual delight they’ve given, where most readers are concerned. Say what you will about the literary merit of E.L.
